What I did for my thesis statement for my English learning for academic purpose (BEL311) was the whole story about why nice guys finish lasts. It really strikes me back. I didn’t realize after all. It was me, the nice guy, the platonic guy pal.
I’ve closed my heart for such a long time. It was a year. A year after I broke up with my girlfriend, who cheated behind my back for two-timing me with another guy. It was a pain, I will never forget. But, karma strikes her back! Thank god for that. This time around, another great history has been made.
I knew a girl, and it was fine at first. Really, I enjoyed the moment I had with her. She was the girl I really want so bad but happened next was, I saw in her eyes, she wasn’t happy with me. Her eyes clearly said that she missed him. Him, who can entertain her, cheered her like she was before. I, in another hand, appeared bored to her. She wouldn’t want to admit the truth.
The next thing, she said, ‘You’re such a nice guy,’ was the word I never want to hear from anyone, from any girl. It’s a sign, people. A sign to you that you’re perfectly just a FRIEND to her. Take that as rejection. Another word to not to break a guy heart by saying, ‘Oh, You’re such a nice guy.’ Eventually, it does. It does break a guy hearts.
Now, I’ve closed my heart. I locked it up, placed the key somewhere I don’t want people to find because I already take the rejection. I’ve move on. I understand why. Clearly, I’m just a girl best friend or perhaps just a friend to you. She came back for a sec and said, ‘I don’t want to lose you.’
Now, she realized the jerks wasn’t for her, he doesn’t give she the pleasure, the entertainment she want from him. The jerks didn’t really care for her. The jerks just turn out to be another useless guy. The good guys like me, who follows you to window shopping, who be there when you need a guy, who comfort you when you need someone when the jerks said things he shouldn’t, is now totally GONE.
You wished you didn’t let go him, but you did. Perfectly you did. You had him at once, you missed the chance. The nice guy, once you gossiped with your friends, ‘He’s such a nice guy but I just want to be friends with him.’ Eventually, you regret. You wished you could get him, because he is the guy that will be there for you when the bad guy is not there for you.
The guy moved on. Locked up his little fucking heart that you broke for once. The guy takes the rejection, and changed. Had open up his option. The guy who didn’t know how to pleasure you up because he believes that relationship is not all about kissing, sex and whatever else but a love. Now, you want him back. It’s too late. His heart is closed. Not going to be open to anyone again. The next thing, now he wants a girl who is very complicated, problematic because to him, girls like that worth solving the puzzle than a girl who doesn’t appreciate how much he was to her.
Notes to girls: Don’t ever say ‘You’re such a nice guy,’ eventually you will ruin a relationship.
And to guys: Don’t just option your choice to just one, open it up, see and the whole bunch of girls out there which is really good to you and who won’t fail to understand you and won’t say ‘You’re such a nice guy.’
Platonic guy - zainal afnan